In ancient
times, it was believed that strong smelling herbs and spices
would ward off evil spirits and bad luck, as well
as ill health. Thus brides started carrying flowers and strong
smelling herbs and spices, such as garlic and chives.
During
Roman times, the bride and groom extended this tradition
by wearing floral garlands on their heads to signify hope
for fertility. At this time, the wedding bouquet symbolized
a woman in bloom.
In Victorian times, the tradition was further
extended. Couples in love would send messages to each other
using different
flowers; each flower had its own special meaning. These meanings
are still used by many brides today.
Below is a list of various flowers and their meanings.
BUTTERCUP: Childishness.
CARNATION: Fascination, distinction, divine love, woman,
yes. Also the birthflower for January.
CARNATION, PINK: A woman's love, I'll never forget you, mother's
love.
CARNATION, PURPLE: Capriciousness.
CARNATION, RED: Alas for my poor heart, admiration, my heart
aches for you, fascination.
CARNATION, STRIPED: Refusal, No, sorry I can't be with you.
CARNATION, WHITE: Innocence, faithfulness, sweet and lovely,
pure love, ardent love, good luck. These lovely flowers have
lasting qualities, and are often handed out on Mother's Day
to symbolize the purity and strength of motherhood. They
were handed out at the first Mother's Day service in 1908.
CARNATION, YELLOW: Disdain, rejection, you have disappointed
me.
CHRYSANTHEMUM: Cheerfulness, optimism, rest, truth. Considered
to be a noble flower in Asian culture, mums are used as an
object of meditation per a suggestion by Confucius. Also
the birthflower for November.
CHRYSANTHEMUM, RED: I love.
CHRYSANTHEMUM, WHITE: Truth, loyal love.
CHRYSANTHEMUM, YELLOW: Slighted love.
DAFFODIL: Regard, rebirth, new beginnings, unrequited love,
you're the only one, chivalry. Associated with the tenth
wedding anniversary. Also the birthflower for March.
DAFFODIL, SINGLE: Misfortune.
DAFFODIL, SEVERAL: Joy, happiness.
DAISY: Innocence, loyal love, I'll never tell, purity. Associated
with the fifth wedding anniversary.
GLADIOLUS: Strength of character, remembrance, infatuation,
splendid beauty, give me a break, I'm really sincere, flower
of the Gladiators, admiration, tells recipients that they
pierce the heart like a sword. Because the gladiolus has
blade-shaped leaves, the name comes from the Latin word gladius
which means sword. Also the birthflower for August.
IRIS: Wisdom, Fleur-de-lis, emblem of France, your friendship
means so much to me, faith, hope, valor, my compliments.
JASMINE, WHITE or INDIAN: Amiability , I attach myself to
you, sensuality, attachment.
JASMINE, SPANISH: Sensuality.
JASMINE, YELLOW: Grace, elegance.
LILY: Majesty, wealth, pride, innocence, purity.
LILY, WHITE: Purity, modesty, virginity, majesty, it's heavenly
to be with you. The white lily is linked to Juno, the queen
of the gods in Roman mythology, by the story that while nursing
her son Hercules, some excess milk fell from the sky creating
the group of stars we call the Milky Way, and lilies were
created from what milk fell to the earth. The Easter lily
is also known as the symbol of the Virgin Mary.
LILY, ORANGE: flame, I burn for you.
LILY, YELLOW: I'm walking on air, false, gay.
LILY OF THE VALLEY: Return of happiness, purity of heart,
sweetness, tears of the Virgin Mary, you've made my life
complete, humility, happiness. The legend of the lily of
the valley is that it sprang from Eve's tears when she was
kicked out of the Garden of Eden. It is also believed that
this flower protects gardens from evil spirits. Also known
as the flower of May.
MAGNOLIA: Dignity, love of nature, nobility.
ORCHID: Rare beauty, love, refinement, beautiful lady, Chinese
symbol for many children, mature charm, beauty, long life.
Associated with twenty-eighth wedding anniversary.
PANSIES: Receipient is being thought about. The flower's name comes
from the French word pensée which means
thought or remembrance. Associated with the first wedding
anniversary.
ROSE: Love, passion, perfection. The rose was
named for the Latin word rosa which means red. It has been
a symbol
of love since ancient times. Associated with the fifthteenth
wedding anniversary. It is also known as the birthflower
of June.
ROSE, BURGUNDY: Beauty within.
ROSE, CORAL: Desire.
ROSE, DARK CRIMSON: Mourning.
ROSE, HIBISCUS: Delicate beauty.
ROSE, LAVENDER: Love at first sight, enchantment.
ROSE, LEAF: You may hope.
ROSE, MOSS: Confessions of love.
ROSE, ORANGE: Fascination, display feeling of enthusiasm.
ROSE, PEACH: Desire, gratitude, apprecation, admiration,
sympathy, modesty.
ROSE, PINK: Happiness, appreciation, admiration, friendship,
sympathy.
ROSE, DARK PINK: Thankfulness.
ROSE, LIGHT PINK: Grace, gladness, joy, perfect happiness,
please believe me, gratitude, admiration, gentility.
ROSE, RED: Love, passion, respect, courage, I love you, beauty,
pure and lovely, prosperity.
ROSE, DEEP RED: Un-selfconscious beauty.
ROSE, SINGLE, FULL BLOOM: I love you, I still love you, new
love.
ROSE, BUD, SMALL: Pure and lovely, beauty and youth, a heart
innocent of love.
ROSE, THORNLESS: Love at first sight.
ROSE, WHITE: Innocence, purity, secrecy, I am worthy of you,
silence, friendship, truth, virtue, girlhood, humility spiritual
love, but of the soul, reverence, charm, happy love.
ROSE, WHITE, DRIED: Death is preferable to loss of virtue.
ROSE, YELLOW: Joy, friendship, true love, decrease of love,
jealousy, try to care, freedom, slighted love, shows "I
care", joy, gladness.
ROSES, BOUQUET, MATURE: Gratitude.
ROSES, RED & WHITE TOGETHER: Unity, flower emblem of
England.
ROSES, YELLOW & RED TOGETHER: Happiness, congratulations.
ROSES, YELLOW & ORANGE TOGETHER: Passionate thoughts.
SUNFLOWER: Follows the sun as it grows, adoration, haughtiness.
TULIP: Perfect lover, frame, flower emblem of Holland.
TULIP, RED: Believe me, declaration of love, fame.
TULIP, VARIEGATED: Beautiful eyes.
TULIP, YELLOW: Hopeless love, there's sunshine in your smile.
VIOLET: Modesty, faithfulness, innocence, understated beauty.
Worn by the ancient Greeks to induce sleep and to calm tempers.
Associated with the fifieth wedding anniversary. Also known
as the birthflower of February.
VIOLET, BLUE: Watchfulness, faithfulness, I'll always be
true.
VIOLET, PURPLE: Thoughts of you, blue love.
VIOLET, WHITE: Let's take a chance, youthful innocence.
VIOLET, YELLOW: Love of country.
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